Beyond that, focus on working on your own confidence, health, gym, etc and people will be attracted to. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Unsure if the rules apply to you for your post/comment? [–]ExtrapolatedData 26 points27 points28 points 1 year ago (0 children), [–]TheyShootBeesAtYou 25 points26 points27 points 1 year ago (1 child). My novel has been rejected by close to a hundred agents and my webcomic has failed to attract much of an audience. I've decided I'd rather be hated for what I am than loved for a good lie, [–][deleted] 47180Answer Link4717 points4718 points4719 points 1 year ago*2 (383 children). ViralHog. They like to talk about how stupid it is to go back to college in my 30’s because it’s a waste of time and money. [–]ceetsie 270 points271 points272 points 1 year ago (37 children). [–]kilcrath 688 points689 points690 points 1 year ago (27 children), I just realized this when I thought about how much I think about other people, [–]Linkerjinx 217 points218 points219 points 1 year ago (6 children). [–]Digitallus1 204 points205 points206 points 1 year ago (11 children), Wouldn’t try to pretend you created it lol it’s an incredibly popular quote, [–]PillowTalk420 164 points165 points166 points 1 year ago (7 children), Yes, but you see, the people I see every day are uncultured swine and wouldn't have heard it before, just like I haven't. [–]CocoMcCoco 191 points192 points193 points 1 year ago (14 children). Just don't … [–]whimsical_shampoo 13350Answer Link1334 points1335 points1336 points 1 year ago (49 children), In your 20s your employer judges you based on your potential, but once you’re in your 30s you’re judged based on your actual results, [–]JayTheFordMan 470 points471 points472 points 1 year ago (17 children), Always under promise and over- deliver ;), [–]nickmillerwallet 160 points161 points162 points 1 year ago (6 children), [–]maximusmaj 98 points99 points100 points 1 year ago (5 children). There’s also a major bonus involved, because it’s not about impressing people as much as it used to be! r/AskWomen: AskWomen: A subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about their thoughts, lives, and experiences; providing a place where all … I may not be thinking about someone constantly but I definitely think about the shit they have done when I run into them or see them again. Now my oldest is graduating next year and the possibility them growing up and moving out is very near and I find this heartbreaking. In improv they teach you to dont give a fuck about looking like a fool, Marlon Brando says he doesnt give a fuck about looking like a fool or failing and well, hes one of the greatest actors of all time. Real talk, they don't think about you. Boners are harder to maintain. People mostly don’t care that I’m redlining at their normal walking speed. Doing what you love is great if it makes a lot of money. Visit /r/ForeverAlone or /r/rant if you want to complain. [–]severIn7 42 points43 points44 points 1 year ago (38 children), [–]daslog 245 points246 points247 points 1 year ago (35 children). Sure, I chose which things to listen to/watch, but I matched my behaviors to them, and they weren’t very good guides. Story time. [–]comrademikel[] 19 points20 points21 points 1 year ago (0 children), [–]dredfredredGive in to Chaos 121150Answer Link12.1k points12.1k points12.1k points 1 year ago2 (168 children). Good bad. I am still a goofy kid in my mind. Ain't no rest for the wicked, and, God damn, am I exhausted. Live one day at a time and accept you are just smart enough to be uncomfortable with shit but that doesn't mean it is always your responsibility to fix it. [–]clinto1980 51 points52 points53 points 1 year ago (8 children). Men who found their hobbies and passions later in life, how did you do it? When you work on your self and harmony across life areas, people can come to your aid and lucky breaks may occur, but you can lose those just as quickly as you gain them. Your mind can either be your best friend or your worst enemy. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. Facebook is showing information to help you better understand the purpose of a Page. I am confident in my own being and my own value. It's also OK to look after yourself first. The sun ages you so much more than you know. Take some of that energy to build yourself up once in a while. Do you still build pillow forts? Education matters in certain specialized fields but personality and networking mean a lot as well. I now sometimes forget I have back issues at all. [–][deleted] 423 points424 points425 points 1 year ago (23 children). There will be no magic moment that changes it all. There are roles we play in our friends groups. There was a TED talk that I listened to several years ago that had a similar topic. Do not directly link to comments in other subs. It's easier to give yourself to others when you already have everything. Appreciate your young beautiful beautiful anus, [–]MangoGruble 57 points58 points59 points 1 year ago (6 children), I had them for like a year in my early 20s, and have spent the entire last decade focused on spending less time on the toilet, improving my wiping habits, and my diet, and anything else under the sun that will reduce the risk of their return. Very hard as a woman still feeling sexy and alive and feeling like the wallpaper. [–]Panino87 46 points47 points48 points 1 year ago (8 children). Start by committing. You need more sleep. Then I got my shit together. Questions posted must be descriptive & open-ended. And your motives. Nobody cares about 90%+ of the stuff you convince yourself is vital, [–]NuclearMaterialMale 3063 points3064 points3065 points 1 year ago (153 children). Young people tend to be idealistic and are taught that they should want to change the world for the better. [–]Ralph-HinkleyMale 155 points156 points157 points 1 year ago* (4 children). Rendered by PID 16100 on r2-app-0bf57e1f6bf008a9d at 2021-02-23 11:37:38.680746+00:00 running 81a1eda country code: PT. ", [–]Jeffreyrock 155 points156 points157 points 1 year ago* (8 children), "You wouldn't worry so much about what other people think of you if you realized how seldom that they do." AskMen on Facebook. [–]hereticjones♂ 1518 points1519 points1520 points 1 year ago (49 children). You’re not flailing in the dark anymore. [–]Seanypat 73 points74 points75 points 1 year ago (0 children). Wisaime. That is life." Learned this with my wife. 2. The AskMen editorial team thoroughly researches & reviews the best gear, services and staples for life. Or, soon-to-be-ex-wife. [–]NicJitsu 67 points68 points69 points 1 year ago (27 children). Not super harsh, but I was a little bummed out when the athletes my age started retiring. Yes, the world doesn't owe you anything, but it's still great to help others when you are able, [–]notboots 23 points24 points25 points 1 year ago (0 children). Media/News Company. So, I am comfortable in the unease of uncertainty. [–]Odin085 138 points139 points140 points 1 year ago (10 children). [–]C-Jen 78 points79 points80 points 1 year ago* (2 children). I give young people this advice, spend at least a year in a big city to learn patience with other people, and spend at least a year in a very remote rural area to learn patience with yourself. I hear folks say it’s a two way street in initiation, but often it’s not. Or "lol there's that person who did that stupid thing at the party last month. [–]juliosmacedo 53 points54 points55 points 1 year ago (3 children), reaching this conclusion is quite simple actually. It was really hard growing up watching him start to deteriorate, but I’m glad I had fun with him when I was still and innocent kid. 1. You will be under appreciated in big ways by more people than you think. Home. Thank you kind stranger! AskMen on Twitter. It's been difficult yet liberating and peaceful in a way I could barely have imagined in my 20s, [–]SopwithStrutter 19 points20 points21 points 1 year ago (10 children). What would you do if someone came to your door and said "I'm here because I'm legally required to tell you I'm a registered sex offender"? For dating it’s a little harder but know that maintaining and/or expanding friends circles and meeting new people will naturally open you up to dating options. Learn demonstrable skills that can translate into professions and careers. Your words. I'm 32 and got very drunk at my work holiday party. Stop making excuses for shitty people for the sake of keeping them as “friends”. [–]shadowoperative 361 points362 points363 points 1 year ago (14 children). The lesson to be learned is that pain is unavoidable. Do not ask for gift ideas; visit /r/gifts. Put effort into some solid relationships with friends and/or family. That question has a million answers, but the common thread across them all is that the way I thought caused the depression, but I insisted on seeing it the other way around. I get a lot of anxiety about looking like an idiot. Again that’s probably a good thing. The title was "Don't Regret Regret" IIRC. My teachers and schoolmates constantly praised me for my talents as a writer and artist and knew that I'd make it big after high school. Get traffic statistics, SEO keyword opportunities, audience insights, and competitive analytics for Askmen. Do not ask yes/no or one word answer questions. This has led me to the conclusion that I should be glad for those embarrassing times, in a way: they have made me a better person. I would’ve saved myself a lot of regret if I didn’t think that tv dating was realistic. [–]Barrace0 959 points960 points961 points 1 year ago (16 children), This is the thread. It's really hard for some people to learn to take care of themselves first and just drive themselves into the ground supporting bad friends, family, or lovers. [–]SydricVym 101 points102 points103 points 1 year ago (5 children). He’s too old for it to actually land him a date and not old enough for it to be cute. Either friends, family, or acquaintances. Most popular books. AskMen International Editions offer users global and locally relevant content in local languages from our expert teams around the world. There is no place you can go, no amount of money you can make, things you can have or people that you associate with that will stop the universe from throwing its unending and relentless amount of inconvenient shit at you. ive never heard this before. You have children who are almost adults now themselves. If you see a 10/10 woman on a dating app, what are your first thoughts? Medical advice is not allowed here. [–][deleted] 133 points134 points135 points 1 year ago (20 children). We are always going to mess up and face failures, and the way we respond to that is a big determination of how our lives will be. You need to take responsibility for your own actions, interactions with others, or lack thereof. I have intrinsic worth. This includes external sites looking to farm responses for content. I cannot control my job. [–][deleted] 713 points714 points715 points 1 year ago (192 children). People are selfish. Death is real and universal; time waits for no man. don't read ahead if you're easily disgusted with these things. [–]SparkleFritz 311 points312 points313 points 1 year ago (5 children). [–]40oztofreedomtoday 86 points87 points88 points 1 year ago (3 children). It was never that easy. I would like to extend this a bit. All the sex/dating tips, fashion/grooming/style, sport & fitness, life hack videos you need to become a better man and much more! You may feel young and think that you are still 20, but the young women you are trying to flirt with see a pervy old dude. [–][deleted] 36 points37 points38 points 1 year ago (1 child). Home; Book lists; About; Best products; 0 items-0; Most upvoted books. And they are a bad time. [–]nom_nom44Male 216 points217 points218 points 1 year ago (5 children). [–]Orphasmia 118 points119 points120 points 1 year ago (18 children), Last night i was leaving a deli at 5am and a man who works the door out of the blue told me: “Remember, you choose to be happy.”. Yep, plus you realize that all that glitters ain’t gold. As a result I had the loneliest bday (30th) I've ever had. Food & Booze. Pool's open. [–]SesshySiltstrider 142 points143 points144 points 1 year ago (2 children). I eat healthy, go to the gym on a regular basis and went back to school couple years back to change careers. I have a coworker who likes to shit on my progress. But you chose the word 'learning' that got me interested. It’s fine, though, mostly. [–]jcowjcow 507 points508 points509 points 1 year ago (14 children), [–]MangoGruble 215 points216 points217 points 1 year ago (8 children), [–]michiganfan71 35 points36 points37 points 1 year ago (5 children), Working out and running become just like brushing teeth, [–]nantucketsleigh23 3230Answer Link322 points323 points324 points 1 year ago (7 children), [–]LostAndAloneVan 18 points19 points20 points 1 year ago (3 children). Still taking time to get used to the idea of it, but my life is so much better now! You lose a bit, it'll be slow! [–]cubano_exhilo 50 points51 points52 points 1 year ago (4 children). I just hate looking like a fool its as if I'm still a child. [–]L4r5man♂ 330 points331 points332 points 1 year ago (30 children), [–]OhNonoeje 43 points44 points45 points 1 year ago (4 children), I’m seventeen and my knees are already sub-par, [–]arthritictongue 494 points495 points496 points 1 year ago (22 children). Find a hobby you love and join groups with the same hobby. Black white. Have a hobby, community or activity you can spend time on regularly. I remember my brother and I arguing with our parents, and it would always just come back to the most little-kid argument there is: "It's not fair! It also changes how you think about dating. now im going to use it all the time and pretend i created it. Very few people will be in your life forever, so it's just easier to accept that people will slowly fade from your life, even if you do everything in your power to keep them there. Commit to the life you actually want. How that manifests in their minds about who I am is an unknown fear that my anxiety tries to worry about/figure out. Top Stories. Glad I got tired of the hangovers and money spent a long time ago. Like, you can call me at 2 am and need me for something and I'm already on my way, but if no one reaches out I'll find something to occupy me. I settled down by the time I was probably 24-25. My dancing is now worse than it’s ever been, and we didn’t start with much! It was a tough transition for me to accept at first. Your motives will determine your words and your actions. This - I have female friends that have bleached the crap out of their hair and spent too much time drinking in the sun... they’re only 30 and unfortunately look much older. This is a nuanced truth which shows that you have learnt to be positive overall despite life having lots of negativity. Take care of yourself...get in the habit of eating right and exercising regularly before it becomes too difficult. The drama/bullshit it your life ends the exact moment you decide you are done. ", [–]Cr4zychris 149 points150 points151 points 1 year ago (5 children). Alcohol is poison. The role I appreciate the most is the one who glues everyone together, the networker. That includes boobs, butts, and your weird eyebrows. Just know it may still not be the same as when you were younger as they may have a partner and kids. It seems a little drawn out so idk if I’d necessarily recommend it, but the big thing it helped me realize is that it’s ridiculous to try not to fail. [–]PhysicsHenchman 17 points18 points19 points 1 year ago (0 children). Woah I never thought about this before, explains some of my relationships. The years seem shorter. My parents didn't know what they were doing. Consequences are very hard and real. I still feel fulfilled. Recognize poisonous people. And that's not even mentioning the sudden veer into sexual irrelevance. Booze Food. Yea what's up with that? 0. There are subs like /r/politics and /r/PoliticalDiscussion if you want to debate political ideas or candidates. Do not tie your own happiness to them. A lot of people in their 30's were raised by a generation where a person making 1.5x minimum wage could easily be a one person income and support a family, save for a house, and get a modest car. Life is just going to hurt you, so it's best to enjoy when it isn't. No rhyme inten...ded, [–]rumblepost 221 points222 points223 points 1 year ago (8 children). You are always committed to something (whether you have consciously chosen it or not) and will be acting to support that commitment. You need to be your own best friend, cheerleader, drill sergeant and mommy. dude, fucking same. Brush your DAMN teeth and floss daily What's the name for the dude who's always down for anything, but never reaches out? I stopped talking to them on a casual level (I still have to talk to them for work which is fine) and keep it at a professional and civil matter. Some things we just get and we’re already on top of, other things we just won’t think about until it comes back to get us. You see your parents getting old and your kids (or other people’s kids) just keep growing up and getting more independent. Just because your schoolmates and teachers say you'll be a rip-roaring success once you graduate doesn't mean you will. But if getting too attached to it makes you feel more like a person than you've ever been before, take that leap. [–]-levivel- 265 points266 points267 points 1 year ago* (61 children). If not, you should build one today. So, is safe? The idea is that these negative emotions serve a function. Doesn't matter if it's softball or dungeons and dragons, lots of new friends are there. But don't ever kid yourself that 'I'll be happy when I get [X]', or 'I'll be content when I achieve [X]'. Or learn skills that you can show potential employers or clients (like an online portfolio for coders or creatives, some record of past projects for manual laborers and KPI’s with results if you’re in business/consulting). [–]Haikuna__MatataMale 13900Answer Link1389 points1390 points1391 points 1 year ago (233 children), 40 didn't bother me but some health issues cropped up, nothing major, [–]manofmystry 588 points589 points590 points 1 year ago* (179 children). If you have a medical issue that persists, get it checked out if you can afford it. [–][deleted] 160 points161 points162 points 1 year ago (11 children), Finally some non soul crushing advice. Celebs Guy Perspective Media Music Sports Travel TV & Film. Everyone has different values in life and the more you spend trying to please and adhere to what others find correct the harder it will be to happy about yourself. AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. Or cigarettes. You don’t really give much shit about most people, nor do most people give a shit about you. Home / Best by subreddit / AskMen AskMen. This is not a fucking optional rule. Most of your problems are your own fault. Come find out Do another, [–]GunslingerLovely 29 points30 points31 points 1 year ago (5 children), I know right. [–]IceBear14Male 35 119 points120 points121 points 1 year ago (2 children), While that's true, that's also a really depressing way to look at it. [–]MeEvilBob♂ 276 points277 points278 points 1 year ago (11 children). I try to make the conscious decision to be at peace with what’s happening even when I don’t like it, and that change in perspective has helped me greatly. Who knows? Once you turn 30 and you are a consistent drinker you will be inflammed, gain weight easily and can cause severe problems in your health almost overnight. I used to have a mantra "I will be better, every day, in every way, than the day before", as part of my plan to work hard and become as awesome as possible in mind, body, and spirit. No matter how hard you work, someone will have criticism. Men who picked up and moved to a new city, how's the life there? I was among the top ten percent of my class. Edit: you're good and wise people, thanks a lot for the replies :), [–]woops69 73 points74 points75 points 1 year ago (1 child). Ain't no rest for the wicked, and, God damn, am I exhausted. He looks 50, I look 25. Edit: Check that, I got married at 24 and there has been no infidelity. [–]Figgywurmacl 459 points460 points461 points 1 year ago (24 children). Best Subscription Services Classes Meal Kits Products. The warmup for the workout could take longer than the workout itself. It took me a very long time to understand this. Entertainment. I'm 33 and this is the first year where I've tries to truly me real with myself about who and what I am. [–]xspike_spiegelc 14 points15 points16 points 1 year ago* (4 children). It's just not worth it anymore. [–]k_henryv 989 points990 points991 points 1 year ago (33 children). And even if you do, it may take a looooong time. No one will break their back for you the way some people do for others. It is WAY harder to get BACK into shape, than it is to SYAY in shape. Them us. You always have that thing in the back of your mind - “I could do that if I bunkered down and focused on being the best I could be”. If I can't come up with a lesson, chances are that it wasn't all that important. Currently my group has the type-a networker, the hilarious idiot, the loud asshole, the charming pretty-boy, the unsolicited advisor, and the sensitive problem-solver. 3. NO SURVEYS. AskMen is the No. You're 35. It's great to have goals and ambitions. Best Subscription Services Classes Meal Kits Products. It’s a really tough mindset to adapt. I feel that only few people reach this conclusion sadly. NowThis Entertainment. Women I was chasing in my 20s were not worth chasing. [–]DiscipulusAeternam 51 points52 points53 points 1 year ago (12 children). [–]Tycoda81 201 points202 points203 points 1 year ago (12 children). If too expensive maybe a free clinic or an online consultation would do. Used to always mess my back up in my 20's. Don't comment/post self-deprecating content looking for attention. I went from always doing something with friends to being stuck at home all the time. Someone to love... That's a tough one, but in my life the times that I stopped worrying about love were usually the times that I found it. AskMen on Google News. Thanks so much! Grid view List view. BE a good friend and you can HAVE good friends. Nope. Truth. Mid 30's now and haven't had issues in years thanks to squats and deadlifts, I'm totally pain free everywhere! If you don't mind and the info is not very personal could you explain how did you lie to yourself? It also sucks that people's lives change due to marriage and/or kids and you all don't just do the same things, spend time with each other as much, etc. Shit didn't matter to me, I was just chasing anything that would keep my dick warm for the night. [–]vostok33 97 points98 points99 points 1 year ago (4 children). People look as you as old. Brush your DAMN teeth and floss EVERY DAY, at least twice. Do not post negative/forever alone rants or whiny posts. Use mod mail to contact the moderators. Decide 100% that you are going to make it better. Best Exercise Bike Accessories Accessories Set to Upgrade Your Spin Sesh. This is the difference between happiness and joy. [–]HumanGuyPerson69420 452 points453 points454 points 1 year ago* (63 children), Haemorrhoids will happen. This continued for 10 years, for 1-2 times per year, until I got operated and had them removed. [–]nihilistic-fuck 71 points72 points73 points 1 year ago (1 child), [–]Valkyrja3145 19 points20 points21 points 1 year ago (1 child). Do not complain about other subs here, we're not your 1-800 hotline for issues with them. It may have been their responsibility, but it wasn't their fault. Read the Frequently Asked Questions wiki and do a search before asking a question. The way you look in your 30s has lot to do with how you lived your 20s. I can not control my wife. Your actions. I'm 29 and just learned this last year. What marketing strategies does Askmen use? I remember who the hottest girls in my secondary school were and none of them are attractive now, but a load of the "plain janes" I wouldn't have looked at twice back then, have turned into beautiful women in their mid and late twenties. *shudders*, [–]tenate 112 points113 points114 points 1 year ago (20 children). [–]Thisiscliff 710 points711 points712 points 1 year ago*2 (67 children), [–]MangoGruble 172 points173 points174 points 1 year ago (33 children). Everything is temporary, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy it. You gain a lot if you eat mo'. It's time to stop. I couldn't even spot a single typo. Obviously demand can change considering the time we live in. My wife was bewildered when after taking the first shit after the operation I punched nearly full force the bath wall to try to distact me from the pain going on in my ass. Seriously, we're gonna remove this shit. Betty, CA. AskMen on Facebook. Most of these posts make me want to have a midlife crisis at 27 lol, [–]FountainofR 221 points222 points223 points 1 year ago (10 children). It means that you made a mistake, and you have the emotional recognition that it was a mistake. If you were never an active person this can happen even sooner especially if you sit a lot. Moderation is not discussed through private messages or chat. Maybe it won’t be that bad but nip it in the bud before it has the chance to become something beyond repair. People I know that loved to sunbathe in their 20s look 20 years older than me now. [–]SopwithStrutter 70 points71 points72 points 1 year ago (16 children), This. The Indian edition of AskMen, the world’s best men’s lifestyle site, dedicated to helping you become a better man. You know this in your twenties; But you see and feel it in your thirties. It's so strange. and join one of thousands of communities. I feel sad for the times I missed when they were little. I will, now, take a new approach and repair my relationship with them. Worried about what people think about you? You're going to lose things you love in life. If we fail, evaluate what went wrong, make changes, and try again, we can basically do anything. At that point, look up youtube videos on smart saving and investing and I’m sure you’ll be able to buy a house and pay off your loans. My brother is 40, I'm 38. Hmm. Be respectful. Usually 2 weeks of hell before they return normal and inside my ass. Living your life to be ready to give up everything at a moment's notice sounds horrible. 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